What makes a woman so appealing to men? This is certainly one of the most frequently asked questions today.

It is not true that they are only interested in your physical appearance and are uninterested in your personality. Neither are they interested in the so-called “model woman,” or are they?

Well, to some extent, yes! However, what men really want is much simpler than you might think — and don’t worry, we’ll help you understand it better.

Do you remember how many times you have labeled men as jerks who only care about one thing (getting your housework done) and immediately associated that with their only interest in your appearance and nothing else? What about all the times you’ve met emotionally unavailable men or guys who have no idea what they want, and how many times you’ve thought you’d never understand them because they don’t understand themselves?

I understand how you feel. I’ve gone through it a hundred times and asked myself the same question over and over again: Who is the ideal woman to men? Some men simply want you to do the housework, whereas others just have no idea what they really want. The latter are simply going through a phase in their lives that has nothing to do with what they want from you in particular.

They simply are not ready for a relationship or anything more serious than physical contact, but that does not mean they will indefinitely remain so.

Don’t waste your time being concerned about their preferences. Consider instead the big picture.

Sooner or later every man will arrive at the same conclusion – he wants the right woman, a woman who complements him. On the other side stands a woman who loves him as unconditionally as he loves her.

Thus, the ultimate dream woman entails knowing what you want, respecting yourself and others, and feeling comfortable in your own skin — all of which are far more appealing to any man out there than simply looking good.

A beautiful woman will always catch a man’s eye, but her beauty will never be enough to win his heart.

Unique and positive energy will always be a man’s dream, because her energy is like food for him, and her inner beauty will never fade!

As you can see, there’s a lot more to it, and that’s just the start.

To help you understand better, the following is a list of the 13 most important qualities men look for in a woman.

 

1 – He seeks a woman with personality

A strong woman knows what she wants and is not afraid to express it. That is exactly what he desires from you; a woman of substance who will not be afraid to contradict or criticize him when necessary.

Men want strong women who have their own goals and don’t follow the crowd; a genuine woman who will not change no matter what others say about her (as long as she knows she is doing everything right). And believe me, nothing is more enticing than that!

2 – He desires a woman who is self-sufficient

Men are not seeking the perfect woman. They simply want a woman who cares for herself both internally and externally, but is not overly concerned with the outside world.

It is enough for them that you take care of yourself, that your hair and nails are neat, that your outfit is appropriate, and so on. They don’t expect you to wear makeup all the time; in fact, most of the time they don’t even notice it. It is sufficient to highlight your natural beauty.

3 – He desires a woman with a strong sense of self-worth

Your strong sense of self-worth, your self-esteem is something you should strive for throughout your life, for it is something that men will always value. Men dislike women who become involved with other men too quickly because they want to feel as if they had to fight for you. And at the end you chose him because he deserved to be with you.

4 – He wants a woman to share his passions

He wants to feel connected to you, and if you show him that he can share anything with you, he will be able to open up to you even more. He wants to share his enthusiasm for things that inspire him, and he wants you to be a part of it as well.

So, if a man tells you about something he did recently, it means he wants you to be interested in it because it means a lot to him.

5 – He desires a good listener

While men are well known for simply disappearing and keeping everything to themselves when they face adversity, this is not always the case.

You want people to listen to you (especially if you’ve had a bad day at work), and a man does, too.

6 – He needs your affection

Men can be insecure at times, which is why you should show him your affection. He desires your affection. He wants to be at ease enough to tell you everything about his life, to hear your thoughts on important issues, and to better understand certain things with your assistance. He simply wants to know that you still like him.

7 – He desires a woman who shares his ambitions and dreams

He seeks a woman who shares his ideas and perspectives on a common future.

If he is family oriented and you are unsure, it will be difficult for him to develop a serious relationship with you.

8 – He desires a woman with her own dreams and goals

Men prefer women who have their own dreams and goals and strive to achieve them. That is one of the most important characteristics of a strong woman.

Men are not interested in women who are couch potatoes with no life plans or goals. They will always choose a woman who is enthusiastic about something because enthusiasm is extremely SEXY.

9 – He desires a woman with whom he can be compatible with

Contrary to the popular belief, opposites do not always attract. And, believe it or not, men are especially cautious in this area.

They want a woman who is compatible with them, that is, someone with whom they can be themselves without fear of being judged. To fit together, you must be willing to compromise despite your differences.

10 – He desires a woman with whom he can have great sex

He simply wants a woman with whom he can experiment and have fun, and who enjoys sex with him as much as he does.

A man also desires a woman who does not simply sit and wait for him to do all the work. You should be as committed as he is, and enjoy every minute of it.

11 – He desires a woman with whom he can have stimulating conversations

Men do not want you to simply nod your head at everything they say. He wants a woman who is equally engaged in the conversation and with whom he can have stimulating discussions about a variety of topics, not just fashion and other women’s issues.

He also expects you to initiate the conversation and express interest in certain topics, even if you are unfamiliar with them.

12 – He desires a woman who is self-assured

Confidence is by far the most attractive quality. Thus, if you want your partner to respect you, you must be confident. He wants you to carry your head high and, if necessary, tell everyone to piss off when you know you’re correct.

 

13 – He seeks a woman with a positive aura

Men seek women with inspiring and encouraging personalities and charisma, as this is the most appealing aspect of the universe to them.

Nothing beats your pure and beautiful heart, your selfcare both inside and out, your ability to avoid being resentful, and your strength to apologize when needed.

These features of yours are true treasures. They motivate men to strive to be the best versions of themselves and to constantly seek new ways to improve.

Men want women who can lift their spirits when they are down and keep them grounded when their goals are too lofty.

I would like to conclude the whole thing using Jose Miguel’s quotes “I think any woman can be the ideal woman”.